APPEAL from the Circuit Court of Crawford County; the Hon.
BRUCE SAXE, Judge, presiding.
MR. JUSTICE EBERSPACHER DELIVERED THE OPINION OF THE COURT:
This appeal is from an order of the circuit court of Crawford County denying a petition to modify a divorce decree, and leaving custody of two minor children of the parties with Glenda M. Huff, the mother, plaintiff-appellee.
Defendant-appellant Richard O. Abbott presents two issues for review: First, whether the trial court's refusal to modify the decree and thereby transfer custody of the children to their father fails to serve the welfare and best interests of the children, and second, whether the trial court's decision results in manifest injustice, and is contrary to the manifest weight of the evidence.
The parties were divorced on April 3, 1970, and custody of the minor children, Suzanne, then age 9, and Sandra, then age 8, was awarded to the mother. Both parties have remarried. On July 29, 1975, the mother filed a petition to show cause alleging the defendant was in arrears in child support payments, and had failed to pay her that which was due as a cash settlement from the divorce decree. On October 9, 1975, defendant filed a petition for change of custody alleging that the mother had influenced the children to be turned against him to such an extent that they refused to visit him. The defendant did not allege a change of circumstances in the lives of the parties, unfitness of the custodial parent, or that it was in the best interests of the children that they live with their father.
A hearing was held on both petitions on December 1, 1975. On January 7, 1976, an order was entered "remanding" both children to the custody of their natural mother. The order further stated "in the event that the children wish to live with their father, they are to write a letter to the court" at the end of the 1976 school term.
At the hearing, the defendant admitted that he had not paid the support and settlement amount due to the plaintiff. He stated in court that it was his intention, by not paying support, to force his wife to come to court and to then file a cross-petition for custody of the children.
In regard to the children, there was testimony that the financial and physical needs of the children were being met adequately in the mother's home in Ohio. The major issue centered around the behavior of the youngest daughter, and what that indicated as to parental discipline. There was testimony that unbeknownst to the mother, this daughter had engaged in sexual activity at the age of 13. The girl is a "C" student, had been absent from school a number of times, and insisted upon smoking cigarettes over her mother's objections. There was also testimony that this daughter had been permitted to go on car dates with a neighborhood boy.
Testimony was given that the father learned of the sexual episodes by reading letters from his daughter in Ohio back to one of the daughter's friends. According to the testimony given, he knew of the situation a month to 6 weeks before the hearing on the petitions, but did not disclose his information to the mother in any manner. He gave the letter to his attorney, and the attorney used it to examine the daughter's testimony while on the witness stand. That was the first information that the girl's mother or her older sister had of the relationship. Failure of the father, upon learning of the daughter's misconduct, to promptly advise the mother custodian for purposes of correction, we consider as evidencing a disregard for the best interests of the child on behalf of the father.
It appears that the mother was licensed to sell real estate and has worked part-time until she recently quit to begin supervision of the building of a new family home in the Ohio community where she settled after the divorce. There was evidence that the reasons for the daughter's absences from school were either excused or due to illness, and that the girl was an average student.
It has often been said that in child custody matters, "the guiding star is, and must be, at all times the best interest of the child" (Nye v. Nye, 411 Ill. 408, 415; 105 N.E.2d 300). As we stated in Patton v. Armstrong, 16 Ill. App.3d 881, 882-83, 307 N.E.2d 178:
"The trial court's task in such cases is to reach a decision designed to protect the child's best interests. (People ex rel. Morris v. Morris (1969), 44 Ill.2d 66, 254 N.E.2d 478.) Once a custody determination has been made by the trial court, a court of review should not disturb it absent a showing of manifest injustice. (People v. Bukovich (1968), 39 Ill.2d 76, 233 N.E.2d 382.)"
1, 2 The grounds for modification of a custody decree are not easily shown. In Brady v. Brady, 26 Ill. App.3d 131, 138, 324 N.E.2d 645, we said:
"A custody decree is not to be modified, however, unless a substantial change of circumstances has occurred subsequent to the original custody order and the change of circumstances affects the welfare of the child. (People ex rel. Bukovich v. Bukovich, 39 Ill.2d 76, 233 N.E.2d 382 (1968); Garland v. Garland, 19 Ill. App.3d 951, 312 N.E.2d 811 (1974); Fears v. Fears, 5 Ill. App.3d 610, 283 N.E.2d 709 (1972).) In matters involving the custody of children, every presumption is indulged in the continuing validity of the original decree and, if its provisions are to be changed, the burden of proof is on the moving party. (Garland v. Garland, 19 Ill. App.3d 951, 312 N.E.2d 811 (1974).)"
We agree with the trial court's decision to leave custody of the children with their mother. The father did not show a material change of circumstances in the lives of the children that was detrimental to their well being. It is true that the sexual activity of the daughter is disturbing, and might indicate lack of supervision and control. But the testimony was that the ...